Alright, I recently did the front diff fluid change and i just wanted to leave a couple of notes in hope of helping others going through this the first time
I couldn't crack open the fill bolt even with a breaker bar and the front wheel off- there just isn't enough room to get the proper torque even with the extensions I had- I think if i had a long enough extension to get the breaker bar outside of the wheel well, i probably would have rounded off the 8mm hex bolt first
So, I had to add fluid through the vent hole, which is the only tube not clamped onto the top of the front diff as others mentioned. The Plews 55001 Lubrimatic Fluid Quart Pump that is so popular fit right over the vent hole. the only issue is that it's not a super tight fit, so it can easily slip off.
you'll want to use a clip of some kind to lock it on there to prevent spills down onto your CV boot and exaust. if you do spill, wipe it up to prevent smoking and possible fires!
somehow, I misread the info and thought we needed 5 of the same gasket for the front and rear, but it's 4 of one (or 3 if you don't open the fill hole), and 1 of the other.
essentially, you need 4 plugs with subaru part# 803918060, 2 front, 2 rear, and a larger gasket for the front drain plug, part # 803926090
the rear was a piece of cake. the front? the whole cake.