Hello everyone,
I would like to provide another update regarding my situation, yesterday I had an appointment at my dealership to have the EGR valve replaced. I drove the car last night for about an hour and a half, I was able to get the engine oil temperature to 100 degrees C (212 F) on the highway on my way home from my adventure, throughout the trip home the engine oil temperature stayed in the mid to high 90s then dropped to around 92-94 after I got off at my exit. I tried to replicate the sound and I wasn't able to do it. So it seems like, after all this trouble, it was my EGR causing the problem.
So after five months back and forth with the dealership and getting Subaru Canada involved to help the dealership, they finally listened to me (or Subaru Canada/the engineers from Japan) and went ahead with the EGR valve replacement. For anyone who is experiencing the same issue, please DO NOT back down and continue working with your dealership and Subaru Canada or SOA regarding your issue. Make sure you keep on pressing them to do something and fix the problem. My car is less than a year old and the dealership said it was "uncommon" or your vehicle is "too new" to have an EGR issue. Please, don't take any of their excuses and try to find a solution to your problem because this is NOT normal.
Since the EGR replacement, the car runs better, it "feels" like it has more power, I don't hear that "pinging" sound, and it doesn't sound like a TDI when the engine is cold, LOL!
As you may be aware, certain people on this thread have had different solutions to their problem; some replaced the EGR, some replaced transmission, and some replaced both engine and transmission... Now my question is why did my EGR fail prematurely? What caused the problem? Was it a manufacturing defect? Are there certain cars being built with a bad EGR valve and only time will tell until they fail?
I believe Subaru should look into this and release a service bulletin in case a few cars may have a malfunctioning EGR valve. I believe the amount of cars that have this issue is quite small so maybe it's not on their radar in terms of a severe issue. Personally, I think Subaru should investigate a figure out the problem as to why this part is failing and remedy it with a solution.